Impacts of Social Media

As the time going social media take over our personal lifes. It is very difficult to identify the realism and fakeism .

Anytime I open any of my social media platform i will see all status bars are full of couples on their exotic vacations or fine dates, living the best life on the universe with overly cheesy, dramatic captions But every time there is a sad message or a break up message under those photos, one wonders what the truth was about that relationship.

Social media has affected our lives so much today that it has become very difficult to maintain privacy and recognize the truth of relationship.

Nowadays there is not much emphasis on going somewhere to enjoy but there is more emphasis on taking pictures while enjoying and uploading those pictures on social media.Some people go for holidays only for clicking of pictures. We are forced to judge our partners or relationships on the scale of social media. If you don’t write a dramatic caption under your spouse’s photo do you even love your partner? Questions Arises .

I have seen people fighting in real but Putting selfies with hashtag of “CouplegGoals” . I am not saying showing your love to the world, posting pictures, expressing your emotions for your loved ones is bad thing . My only concern is that there is No Barometer of social media to show your love for your loved ones.

It is not very important to go for a vacation every time but Enjoying every meal with family is much important in happy life .

The main purpose of social media is to connect with people and not to show off. Keep your life simple rather than complicated. Just stop comparing, you may lose what you have.Express yourself in your real life not on the social media only.

Try to be real and make your loved ones happy.......

“I” the First Cause of EGO.

Ego is the Latin word for “I.” So if a person seems to begin every sentence with “I“, it’s sometimes a sign of a big ego.

“I” a very short word but very important and thoughtful word. We always use the I at the very end in any credit game. Whenever we give priority to the word I, it always harms the relationship whether the relationship is in family life or in social life or in our working life.

Whenever a person glorifies himself, his ego is bound to increase. Praise is what people do. Praising yourself is not a praise. The praise done by someone reveals your virtues but the praise done by yourself creates your ego.Ego smacks of arrogance and No one likes to deal with people who are arrogant or who display ‘attitude’.

Gurbani sayings.

ਹਉਮੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਸਭੁ ਜਗ ਬਉਰਾਨਾ ॥ ਦੂਜੈ ਭਾਇ ਭਰਮਿ ਭੁਲਾਨਾ ॥

The entire world has gone insane in egoism. In the love of duality, it wanders deluded by doubt.

We must show ourselves as we are.People will not respect us by showing Arrogance’s .

So try to be yourself and Keep smiling. kyuki je ZINDAGI NA MILEGI DOBARA !!!

Do we inglecting our present?

Hey there !

This post is for students, professionals and all.
You may be thinking…….we are neglecting our present?…… What is meant of it?

so let’s begin….

We all are future oriented. We always like to be best in our life. Due to this we are always worried about our future. We think about our future so often that we forget the work we have at present. We are neglecting our present because of over thinking towards future and past .

Let’s take an example of college student
They are worry  about their future. They think whether they will pass the exams or whether they will get a good job.Getting worry about future is not a bad thing but over worrying unable you to use the present time . At present, they need only to study, if they are not doing justice to their study, their failer chances will increase .Today is the day we have the power to do anything. future is always uncertain so do today what u wants to do. Setting small goals in life and give your 100 % to achieve them.

Today is very important, We cannot change the past and the future is not in our hands.

Why you are constantly thinking about your future?

You have fears. That’s it.
You are scared of outcome, you are scared what will happen if things don’t go right. It is normal to have fears. But don’t let those fears overpower the immense strength you have.

Go ahead! Take the first step!
When you are in a constant doubt about your future, You are destroying both : the present and the future. At this time, you have to give your 100 % .When you give it don’t have to worry about the outcome.
Same goes for if you are a professional working in any field, you want more promotions , Increment any thing which satisfying you . Don’t waste your time thinking about it, but instead prepare yourself for it.

For some time, I too was lost thinking about future and all.. and it really messed up my mind. I realize Why should I waste the time I have to think about something that is uncertain.

This can also be considered when we deal with people. Sometimes, we waste so much of our time thinking that the person had tell me something bad, I will not talk to him/her …etc. Why we need to do that?

Question arrives:

Have you done anything wrong?


Then you should not think so much about it. Forget it and move on . This is your life which is very Precious .From now on, do justice to what you are doing .

Do justice with your present work , Future always be beautiful , Remembrance of past will not coming on your way.

life will be beautiful with beauty of work you had done in your present.

International Women day

I measure the progress of a community by the degree of progress which women have achieved. –B. R. Ambedkar

Women are an most important part of society, whether in the form of mother,wife, sister, daughter,girlfriend, etc.

Role of mother in life.

First of all, Mother is a word which fills everyone with emotion. A Mother is certainly the most important human being in everyone’s life. Mother’s Love for her child certainly cannot be compared with anything. Her level of forgiveness is unmatchable. A Mother is capable of forgiving any wrongdoing. Mother is the most important woman in everyone’s life. A mother sacrifices her happiness for her child. No one else can care for their kids the way a Mother does.  A Mother is great and does not need anyone like me explaining that.

Role of wife in men life .

Behind every successful man is a woman. And if the man is married, then the woman is definitely his wife.
The role of a wife is so crucial that she can either make or break a family. She gives her husband the strength to succeed, she nurtures her children to stay healthy and do well in their life, and she has the ability to take care of every minute detail at home.
So, what exactly does a wife do that she is so important to her family? We list out the role of a wife in a man’s life. You may read about the role of a husband here.

  • Love him unconditionally.
  • Help him.
  • Keep his honor/ dignity.
  • Respect him.
  • Fulfil his needs.
  • Be faithful to your husband.
  • Seek his opinion.
  • Cook for him.
  • Respect your in-laws.
  • Take care of household duties.
  • Be responsible.
  • Be patient.
  • Educate your children.
  • Safeguard your home.
  • Take care of yourself.

Role of sister in life .

As someone with a sister, I can attest to the fact that it is, indeed, amazing. Yes, they can be a bit of a pain sometimes (especially when you’re dealing with a younger sister who just won’t leave you alone when you’re little) and of course, sibling rivalry just comes with the territory. But overall, a sister is the best gift your parents can give you. Not only does it offer two closets (or more) to choose from when you’re growing up, but as it turns out, having a sister is beneficial to both your physical and mental health, too.

Role of daughter in life .

A daughter  reasonably expects physical care and emotional support to a certain age, and parents might expect increasing domestic responsibility and self-direction with their child’s physical maturation.  Role anticipation occurs when the daughter assumes this will be true for her in the future.

Role of Girl as a friend.

The word “friend” is in “girlfriend” for a reason.Laugh at his jokes when they’re funny, and listen to his stories whether they’re interesting or not. Every girl wants to be the best girlfriend ever that’s why girls always put their best foot forward whenever they are with their boyfriends. Some of the ways to do this is to dress up well and take care of yourself so that you always look good. Just like women, a man wants to spend the rest of his life with a woman who treats him and his family well, and is capable of performing her duties as a wife and a mother.

The mirror( Inner view)

Mirror is commonly used for inspecting oneself, such as during personal grooming but i am going to talking about the mirror which is for our innerself. Refelective mirror is for our outer personality but inner mirror show us that how we are inside and how we have te behave in outer.

Way to see inner through mirror

Stand in fornt of mirror.

See in your eyes.

Rewind your daily routine.

Think what you had done.

Analysis yourself.

Elvalute all circumstances.

Think of what reaction you had done in that circumstances .

Is it good or you need change your behaviour on same.

Try to be your critic.

Try implement changes in your behaviour and see change in your attitude .

Your complications also be solved with this exercise . your confidence level also be high and life also relaxed.Inner critisim is the best way to improve your life style.The mirror shows inner and outer personality . Outfit should be perfect but inner also be prefect .

Love yourself the most and try to be make changes in your life . Always keep smile on your face.!!!!!!!!

Be optimistic not opportunist

Person with optimistic view has never feels down . Optimists accepts the conditions don’t blame anyone , they try to control conditions and they take it a positive But opportunist makes a way to surpass conditions but every time it doesn’t work.

Optimists always hardworking they don’t need to find a opportunities, opportunities finds them .

The minister

There was a king who once went to the jungle for hunting . He was accompanied by one of his ministers . While the minister was trying to arrow down a peacock , he happens to hurt the king’s index finger unknowingly . The king turns very furious . He decides to maroon the minister deep in the forest . Doing so, he starts off to his palace . On the way , he encounters some tribal inhabitants . They immediately take custody of the king and prepare him for a ritual sacrifice . While just about to kill the king ,one of them notices the king’s bleeding finger. He informs this to all his fellowmen . They then let the king go ,saying that an incomplete life can not be given as a sacrifice to the God .

The king realizes that the mistake committed by the minister has now saved him . He goes back to the minister , narrates to him what had happened , apologizes and thanks him . The minister being very optimistic , says that its he who has to thank the king for marooning him .

Bewildered, the king asks what for he is thanked ?

The minister replies that if he had not been marooned by the king , the tribals would have killed him for being perfectly healthy .

Saying so, the minister concludes that there is always something good in whatever happens . 

Lets look at the better part of things .

Optimistic thinking makes life easrier and happy.

Shine your personality

What is Personality ?

When you look up the meaning of the word personality in layman’s terms, you may find something like ‘that what characterizes a person’. In everyday life we use terms such as characteridentity or predisposition.

By Dr. Edwin van Thiel

How the people perceived you as the whole is the main characteristic of our personality .

How to improve your personality:-

Set a objective of your life  .

Make everyday count.

Be confident.

Improve your body language.

Be yourself

Be a good listener .

Try to be dynamic.

Love everyone .

Always show Smile on your face.

Socialized yourself. 

 Try to Self evaluate

Make a habit to take healthy food.

Try to be a Reader.

Improve your Command on language. 

Improvement in personality development makes you confident , self esteemed, and Postive thinker.

If we follow above improvements in our daily life will going to be great. 

Change of thinking also makes prospective change in your personality. 

Humanism to be controlled

Everyone here talk about me my myself only the selfishness in world is on high .The humanitarian ground become very low. Happiness and enjoyable human being is very rare to find .

All are in wrong propogandas of religion and politics. A honest and true human feel danger in this environment. Humanity is in danger.

Everyone need to find the wrong people and try to avoid like that they disappear from your life we have to fase reality that a standing with us planning something wrong for another they will any time make a plan for us also .

My mantras for happy and enjoyable life

Try to avoid bad company.

Try to study else anything newspapers, books, journals blogs it will going to help your life to upgrade .

Try to talk with yourself about your behavior on every situation.

Try to analysis yourself also.

Give time to your family.

Try not to be judgemental.

Try to analysis the situations ,every thing have some another aspect also .

Try to be Religious but not Radical.

AtLast but not least try to be a good observer.

The stratigical man (M.S.DHONI)

M.S.DHONI is the man i love to watch the most in sports they have the ability to do anything he is one of my role model.How they calaculate the game ,how there defencive strategy work and make opponent confuse is remarkable. The captain cool is the best tag to explain there behaviour.

Life outline

He was born at Ranchi ,Jharkhand on  7 July 1981. Hailing from a very small town of Ranchi, Dhoni dared to dream and with courage and guts make that dream a reality. 

Dhoni studied at DAV Jawahar Vidya Mandir, Shyamali, Ranchi, Jharkhand.

Dhoni impressed with his wicket-keeping skills and became the regular wicketkeeper at the Commando cricket club (1995–1998). After that he had played a under 16 matches in Vinoo Mankad Trophy.

He was a Travelling Ticket Examiner (TTE) at Kharagpur railway station from 2001 to 2003.

Dhoni made his Ranji Trophy debut for Bihar in the 1999–2000.Dhoni’s performance in the 2002–03 season included three half-centuries in the Ranji Trophy.

India A squad, he was picked in the ODI squad for the Bangladesh tour in 2004/05. Dhoni did not have a great start to his ODI career, getting run out for a duck on debut.

India were crowned champions in ICC T20 WORLD CUP as Dhoni lead the team to victory against Pakistan in a thrilling contest.Then he went on to become the ODI captain of the Indian team for the seven-match ODI series against Australia in September 2007.

Under Dhoni’s captaincy, India won the 2011 ODI World Cup. 

Stat of Dhoni

Awards by Indian Government
• Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna (2007)
• Padma Shri (2009)
• Padma Bhushan (2018)

• MTV Youth Icon of the Year (2006)
• ICC ODI Player of the Year (2008, 2009)
• CNN-IBN Indian of the Year in Sports (2011)
• ICC Award for Spirit of Cricket (2011)

Finisher in style

MS Dhoni is tagged as the best finisher in cricket because he has this habit of taking the game till the end and finishing it off.

He likes to take this responsibility and has mastered this class over the years.

I got inspired by the way he had a control over the situations in game .If we make that control over life we will become satisified with our efforts in life and life become so easy and relaxed. If situations are in your control it is in your when to take 1 run and when you need to hit a super short and all problems resolved with that. 

Thanks dhoni sir you gave us very happy moments. we will always proud of you.

Elected Democracy for strenuous Autocracy .

During my schooling I had no interest in political science but while preparing for services I have seen it is very interesting and full knowledgeable subject. I had learnt a lot about how democracy and autocracy works. But In today’s scenario the democracy converted into elected autocracy.

Democracy is a form of Government where peoples chosen individual or a party to provding services for them and providing everything in good manner.But they makes laws only for there own welfare .We elect them but after election they neglect us.

Politicians converting this democracy into elected autocracy where there is no government for the people by the people its only the goverment is supreme power  .
Questioning against government is a anti national activity nowadays. Is this the example of democracy.

Peoples instead of respecting they afraid of politicians.While Media is playing role like promotor of government.I feel major role for change of discorse of democracy in india is weak oppostion.Strong leader in oppostion gives right path to government.

Autocratic sturture is also same as todays democratic struture as a system of government by one person with absolute power.We feel like we had elected a dictotor.

Time have come we have to stand for our rights and fight for our rights . We have to show our unity and dignity so that none is try to ruiens our dreams.

Charity (The Noble task)

“The word ‘charity‘ means generosity in giving something to the needy out of loving kindness towards them”.

Charity is one of the most noble tasks that a man can do in his life.According to different religious beliefs, our life on earth is just a transitory phase of an eternal journey towards salvation.So, this brief period that we are on earth, which we call life, has to be lived with a purpose.

In Sikhism the key teaching is Vand Chhakna which refers to charity- sharing what one earns, generosity, the giving of charity. This is considered a religious duty because Sikhs believe this encourages compassion.

Dasvandh or Dasaundh, literally means a “tenth part” and refers to the practice among sikhs of contributing in the name of the Guru, one-tenth of their earnings towards the common resources of the community. This is also referred to in Punjabi as “Daan” literally “giving” or “contributing” in charity.

 The idea of sharing and giving is symbolised by the institutions of langar (community kitchen) for the Sangat (holy assembly) that the Guru has established.

The concept of dasvandh was implicit in First Guru Nanak Dev Ji’s own Gurbani in the line:

ਘਾਲਿ ਖਾਇ ਕਿਛੁ ਹਥਹੁ ਦੇਇ ॥ ਨਾਨਕ ਰਾਹੁ ਪਛਾਣਹਿ ਸੇਇ ॥੧॥”
One who works for what he eats, and gives some of what he has – O Nanak, he knows the Path

Contribution toword society is also be praised and satisfied feeling ,getting blessing from charity is always make u happy. 🙂🙂


Attributes as causes of corruption:Greed of money desires. Higher levels of market.Political monopolization.Low levels of democracy.Weak civil participation. Low political transparency.Nowadays politics is only for criminals and criminals are meant to be in politics. Elections in many parts of the country have become associated with a host of criminal activities. Corruption in the Indian society has prevailed from time immemorial in one form or the other. The basic inception of corruption started with our opportunistic leaders who have already done greater damage to our nation. People who work on right principles are unrecognized and considered to be foolish in the modern society. Earlier, bribes were paid for getting wrong things done, but now bribe is paid for getting right things done at right time.Most Responsible factor of corruption

  • People in general, have a great thirst for luxuries and comforts.
  • Low Moral and spiritual values.
  • The salary paid to employees is very less and as a result of which they are forced to earn money by illegal ways.
  • Lack of Strong and stringent laws which gives no room for the guilty to escape.
  • Lack of ethical norms in peoples.
  • Rush to do work.
  • Low media freedom.
  • Corruption is related to the level of education.
  • A relatively low level of education.
  • In many cases, the employees opt for corrupt means out of compulsion and not by choice so try give a secure atmosphere for ethical peoples.

Media Sansationalism

The media is the informal pillar of democracy”, a sort of watchdog that draws its strength from Article 19 (1) (a) of the Indian Constitution. The primary role of the media is to inform and educate the public on the functioning of the three pillars (Legislature, Executive, Judiciary) which are also the bedrock of democracy.

But in now days Sansationalism has become synonymous with the Indian Media, especially Television.
Higher TRP ensured sustainability which eventually increased the company’s profitability. This has shifted the focus to sensationalism rather than credibility of the news. Journalists take advantage of India’s love for sentiments and emotions to spread propaganda.Today’s journalists and anchors usually go beyond the scope of just ‘reporting’ the news by giving their personal verdict of the matter, giving the viewers very little space to think on their own. They have been used as tools to influence and tweak people’s thoughts.

The activities which helpful in unbiased journalism :-

-Try to write a neutral report on every incidents.

The primary purpose of “straight news” is to inform the audience without seeking to persuade.

-Learn How Journalists Counteract Bias.

-They need to work to minimize the impact of bias on their reporting.

-Review what has been covered so far, including, the way we respond to individuals, issues, and events.

The protest “Indian farmers protest 2020”

Protest is to show or express strong disapproval of something at a public event with other people.” This is the definition that I had founded on Google but in general I had found “The word protest” is unsafe because before this farmer protest in India, i had seen every protest very curel in nature . However, this protest sets an a example

-How to show your concerns toward your rights.
-How to show your protest in peaceful manner.
-How protest is managed .
-How to engage people of every community with you.
-How to control your resources.
-How to express thoughts in peaceful manner.
-How to protect public property.
-How to feed people from protest.
-How the stage managed, political aspirations controlled.

People eagerness to go in protest without any fear is great achievement, which which I haven’t seen before . The hostility in protest had gained everyone’s attention.

The new definition of protest by me
” To express our concerns toward any matter with peace”

Wikkipedia :-2020 Indian farmers protest.


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